Courage is the most important of all thevirtues because without courage, youcan’t practice any other virtueconsistently.Maya AngelouNo pain that we suffer, no trial that we experience is wasted. It ministers to our education, to the development of such qualities as patience, faith, fortitude and humility. All that we suffer and all that we endure, especially when we endure it patiently, builds up our characters, purifies our hearts, expands our souls, and makes us more tender and charitable, more worthy to be called the children of God . . . and it is through sorrow and suffering, toil and tribulation, that we gain the education that we come here to acquire and which will make us more like our Father and Mother in heaven.Orson F. WhitneyTrue Christian fortitude consists in strength of mind, through grace, exerted in two things; in ruling and suppressing the evil and unruly passions and affections of the mind; and in steadfastly and freely exerting and following good affections and dispositions, without being hindered by sinful fear or the opposition of enemies… Though Christian fortitude appears in withstanding and counteracting the enemies that are without us; yet it much more appears in resisting and suppressing the enemies that are within us; because they are our worst and strongest enemies and have greatest advantage against us. The strength of the good soldier of Jesus Christ appears in nothing more than in steadfastly maintaining the holy calm, meekness, sweetness, and benevolence of his mind, amidst all the storms, injuries, strange behaviour, and surprising acts and events of this evil and unreasonable world.Jonathan Edwards
Be merciful, just as your father is merciful. Luke: 36
Welcome to day 13 students! Today I was reminded to be merciful. I know that the 40 days of Lent that we are sharing we want to pour out Mercy for others. Do you remember a time when you were showed Mercy? As a student you may have been given more time to complete an assignment. as a teenager your parents may have gone easier on you when they found out you were up to no good. As an adult you may have messed something up at work and the boss gave you another chance. You may have hurt a friend’s feelings by making a rude comment. Mercy feels really good when you are all the other end of it. Sometimes we feel like we are unforgivable. People will forgive us but we will not forgive ourselves.
Let’s take this lesson a little deeper. Have you ever dealt with a person that is a taker? They are just very spiteful and make you feel horrible. How do you show Mercy to a person who is so unkind and inconsiderate? In most cases these people are very selfish and self-centered. They create unhealthy situations in order to get what they want. How do you show Mercy to a person that is so self-absorbed? Students, it is very hard. This person could be a relative, boyfriend or girlfriend, husband or wife, long time friend, or a fellow employee at work. It’s so hard when you have to deal with people that are spiteful. If they are in your life, face it, you have to deal with them.
Let’s think about ways that are positive or Christian ways to deal with spiteful people. First, recognize the situation and how it makes you feel. If they have a negative impact on you something needs to change. Spiteful people can steal your joy, but they are also still part of our Christian family.
When you are confronted by a spiteful person, the first thing to do is not to react. That plays right into their hands. They use emotions to manipulate you. Most times you will give in just to have peace. When you react to them with arguing you automatically lose. I know it is really hard to show Mercy to these types of people but instead of reacting close your eyes and say a prayer for patience.
Next, try to talk to the calmly. Express how you feel. Use I statements. I feel very sad when this happens or I am uncomfortable with this situation. If you use you statements they will use them to play the victim. Stand your ground and be calm setting clear boundaries. If we are going to arguing I am leaving or hanging up the phone. If it is texting, ignore them. Hit delete and don’t even read it. Don’t engage the negative behavior. Then pray about it and for them.
Last but not least, these personality types are usually in need of a good friend. They are insecure. Stand your ground, be positive, and don’t react. You can be the person that helps them make a change. If they can’t be civil then try to limit your contact with them. Remember when you do see them try to always be kind. You can’t control anyone but yourself. Everyone is deserving of God’s mercy. Today think of a difficult person you deal with and say a prayer for him/her. Be merciful.
Sal the Merciful Gal
Sarah Anderson Alley
Quote of the day:
Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.
Charles R. Swindoll
This weekend I’ve been having a grand time! I have enjoyed my family and especially my grandchildren. March is also a busy time for me because I love college basketball. When basketball games are on, we watch as a family. This is one of the reasons students that my blog is late. But have no fear I will catch up.
The readings today filled me with joy. I felt very special. God has chosen us to be his holy people. He has chosen to give us life to the fullest and weekends with my family and grandchildren make me feel that promise has been fulfilled. God really wants us to be happy I know I’ve said this over and over but I want you to believe it. Remember I told you to take a field trip this weekend. I said that field trip could be to church or just spend moments to yourself or with your family. I hope that you plan to do this.
This weekend think about what is keeping you from being happy. What is keeping you from spending precious time with your families? Are you completing your homework? There is a God and he is on your side. Whom shall we fear? I want you to look at these Bible verses from Paul to the Romans:
Scripture Romans 8:35-39
What will separate us from the love of Christ? Will anguish, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or the sword? As it is written: / “For your sake we are being slain all the day; / we are looked upon as sheep to be slaughtered.” / No, in all these things we conquer overwhelmingly through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor present things, nor future things, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord
You see students, we are loved. Nothing can separate us from this great love and the gifts that God wants for us is this life and also after this life. These forty days we are going to unwrap this beautiful gift. Homework? Love your family.
Sal the Trust God Gal
Sarah Anderson Alley
Quotes of the day:
“Love is like the wind oh, you can’t see it but you can feel it.”
“No matter what has happened to you in the past or what is going on in your life right now, it has no power to keep you from having an amazingly good future if you will walk by faith in God. God loves you! He wants you to live with victory over sin so you can possess His promises for your life today!”
“The greatest legacy one can pass on to one’s children and grandchildren is not money or other material things accumulated in one’s life, but rather a legacy of character and faith.”
Happy Friday! Students today we have shared 10 days together. Time really flies when you’re having fun, right back row? We have a list of things that we need to do. Those things will create a lot of goodness and light. Examine your heart. Does it feel a little lighter? I know that my heart does just by being able to teach.
Today the readings focus on forgiving others in particularly your brother. Try loving those who hurt you. It also mentions when you do good things, good things will happen to you. That’s right front row this sounds like karma. Many times in our faith as Christians we think karma is a pagan ideal. But hey, we came up with the same idea but with just a different label. Good works will beget good works. Love will beget love.
Today is such a beautiful warm Friday here in my little corner of the world. Spring is in the air and with that comes spring fever for students. Students are not only guilty of getting spring fever, I have always been guilty of yearning for the outdoors when the weather becomes beautiful. But back row we have to stay the course. On this beautiful Friday our homework assignment is to think about a brother or sister or a relative that needs to be forgiven. Someone that needs your prayer. Someone that you need to reconcile with and to show Mercy. It will not be easy. So this weekend when you encounter a relative or sibling, try to show love and forgiveness. If you don’t have a chance to see this person or they live far away from you, write and send them a letter or card or send them a text message. The message needs to be positive with no underlying anger or passive aggressiveness. It could simply be a remember when…. Share with them a memory of a good time. Or simply sign love and your name. Trust me and trust God. This is a thorn that needs removing. Be strong! Do it!
Sal the Reconcile Gal
Sarah Anderson Alley
Quote of the day:
Do you have to have a reason for loving?